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The video starts by discussing the need for children to experience various emotions, which effectively grabs the audience's attention from the beginning.And you know I said that the need of the child is to be able to experience all the emotions they need to be able to experience the grief as well And it doesn't matter whether from adult eyes we see that loss as major or minor it's a question of how is the child experiencing it And for a small child even what looks like small losses can be very painful Well then we don't make the child wrong for it We don't say get over it There's nothing wrong Think of all the other children who are suffering all that kind of relativistic shaming stuff We say oh it really hurts doesn't it You really wish grandpa would be here with you You really wish mom and dad weren't leaving each other It hurts In other words you just validate their emotions