My In-laws Don't Treat Me Like Family | Paul Friedman

Are you having issues with your in-laws and they don't treat you like family? Watch Paul gives you tips on this problem that happens on both sides, men and women. This is a problem and a lot of people don't ask the question. They just eat it.

A lot of times it's a failure within your spouse's parents' marriage to begin with. They don't treat each other like family. You got to get out of this space of woe-is-me and look objectively and see if that's what's really going on. In most cases, that's the problem. They don't treat each other with the love, the respect that you want to have in your family. In your family hopefully, your family is tight, lot of love, lot of mutual respect. You make it a point to feed into the very foundation of your marriage which is love and happiness and you do that on a continual basis and never take away from that with anger or criticism or any of the other killers of marriage.

Hopefully, you're working in your marriage in a way that it's phenomenal and you can't even believe how wonderful your marriage is. And if it's not that way, you need to read one of my books or take one of the courses so you could get your marriage like that and that way this other problem with the in-laws is just a little fringe problem that you have.

Once you've done that that's first then you take a look at their marriage and you look past the
facade and you see, is their true respect? Is their true love? And if not, stay away don't care just interact with them superficially as best you can, always giving them love, giving them respect and not worrying about it. Now, the other big reason is because they're defensive. They don't know how to behave in front of you and so they're distant, cold, even mean. You can't do anything about that. You treat them with love, respect and you practice the bowling ball technique that if they throw something at you you be a feather and the bowling ball comes and you're not affected by it. Don't let them get to you.

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