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The Underdog Effect: How Success Can Spark Envy and Regret
If I had immediately jumped and started a tech startup and raised a hundred million dollars they probably immediately wouldn't have been happy for me I think the reason that you get that underdog rooting in the beginning is because you actually take a step down in status And so their relative standing actually increases so they encourage you But then as you come up your success reminds them of the dreams that they didn't pursue to begin with It also reminds them that you started with probably the same resources and that's why it's so hard to go home for a lot of people because everyone who you grew up with in middle school and high school you become a glaring example of what they could have done but didn't