Скачать или смотреть When you think she's perfect:

for the first 19 years of my life, I did this. If I waas ever into a girl, I'd convince myself that she couldn't make mistakes- that she was perfect. this lead to many problems:
if she didn't like me, to me, it meant I sucked.
I based my self worth on someone else's opinion of me.
In my mind, I dehumanized a girl when I was into her- making mistakes is something that makes us human- and I didn't believe (general) she could do that.
I truly objecctified women- and I don't mean that in the annoying liberal way- i saw women as a perfect objective- rather than just another person.

Believe and do what you want, but in my experience, this made it much harder to have any kind of relationship or even interact with a lady I was interested in.