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Are you unintentionally harming sexual intimacy in your relationship? Even the most loving and supportive actions can sometimes reduce desire, creating emotional distance and weakening connection.

Topics Covered:
👉 The seven common mistakes that harm sexual intimacy in long-term relationships.
👉 How attachment styles—anxious and avoidant—affect desire and emotional connection.
👉 Mistake 1: Treating your partner as a therapist or emotional dumping.
👉 Mistake 2: Using sex for reassurance instead of genuine desire.
👉 Mistake 3: Only connecting in the bedroom, avoiding emotional intimacy elsewhere.
👉 Mistake 4: Emotional unavailability or abandonment outside of sex.
👉 Mistake 5: Expecting sex to fix emotional disconnection.
👉 Mistake 6: Weaponizing pain or using passive-aggressive behaviors.
👉 The neurological impact of these behaviors: cortisol associations vs. bonding hormones (vasopressin, oxytocin).
👉 Practical steps to reverse these patterns and rebuild desire and connection.
👉 How repairing attachment and improving communication can restore both sexual and emotional intimacy.

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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Why Intimacy Fades
01:14 When Effort Makes Things Worse
02:34 Why Attraction Isn't the Key Factor
03:44 Understanding Attachment Styles
04:02 Mistake #1: Treating Your Partner Like a Therapist
05:47 Mistake #2: Using Sex for Validation
09:48 Mistake #3: Only Connecting in the Bedroom
10:50 Mistake #4: Total Emotional Unavailability
11:24 Mistake #5: Expecting Sex to Fix Emotional Disconnection
13:00 Mistake #6: Weaponizing Your Pain
14:29 Mistake #7: Scorekeeping in the Bedroom
15:37 Bonus: The Root Mistake—Unhealed Childhood Wounds
17:14 How to Heal and Rebuild Desire
20:54 Rewiring Intimacy: Next Steps
22:42 Final Thoughts and Course Info

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