She Wanted An Uncontested Divorce: The Power of True Understanding |

Brenda and Joseph have an atypical story as a Singaporean couple. He's a stay-at-home dad, and she's the sole breadwinner. After their marriage, their differences started to seep in, in ways they didn't realise was happening.

Find out in this raw and honest exchange about how they overcame significant marital challenges and found their way back to each other.

00:00 - Intro
01:40 - An unexpected surprise: Watching themselves in a short film
04:25 - What happened in the short film?
07:19 - Why did she ask for an uncontested divorce?
09:04 - Refusing the idea of the divorce
09:38 - How differences in childhood led to differences in parenting
11:34 - Being transported back to her own childhood trauma
12:34 - Their expectations of their own marriage
14:09 - Feeling helpless because he couldn't provide for his family
16:04 - Making the decision to become a stay at home dad
16:27 - Marriage can be very isolating
19:56 - Difference in conflict styles
21:35 - Their first step to reconnecting
23:15 - Growing up in a family where sorries were never said
24:47 - Celebrating the small wins
27:38 - What do they appreciate about each other?
28:49 - The greatest turning point in their marriage
30:04 - Addressing when divorce may be the only way
32:54 - Marriage gives you the opportunity to perfect how you love

YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME is an intimate peek into the struggles that we often find so familiar, especially in familial relationships. Witness honest conversations between family members as they unpack what it took to get them to a place of understanding and restoration.

If you are a Singaporean looking for inspiring stories about overcoming relationship struggles, this video is for you.

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