6 Signs It's NOT Real Love, It's Hoovering

Are you feeling confused about whether your relationship is built on real love or manipulation? Understanding the difference can save you from heartache and help you recognize toxic patterns. In this video, we uncover six signs that what you’re experiencing isn’t genuine love, but hoovering—a manipulative tactic used to keep you entangled.

We’ll explore how hoovering manifests as toxic love, filled with manipulation and deceit. By identifying these signs, you can protect yourself from fake love and make informed decisions about your relationships.

Join us as we discuss the behaviors of manipulators and provide insights to help you navigate the complexities of dating and relationships.

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Disclaimer: Hoovering tendencies can be exhibited by anyone, but it does not automatically classify them as an abuser. It's crucial to consider the facts and intentions behind these actions. Hoovering is commonly used by abusers when they perceive their victim is trying to leave, which is why we made this video to raise awareness. Furthermore, this video does not suggest that all narcissists are abusers. Our objective is to provide information aimed at identifying unhealthy relationship behaviors.

Writer: Brandi Michele Ortiz
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Gabriel Miles
Animator: Amy Arendolff
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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