In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, James opens up about his journey from surviving childhood abuse, addiction, and mental health struggles to discovering purpose, healing, and hope. Together, we explore the realities many men face but rarely speak about—shame, silence, anger, anxiety, and the long road toward recovery.
James shares how peer support, lived experience, community, and one person believing in him changed the direction of his life. From battling trauma to becoming a co-facilitator helping other men, his story is a testament to resilience, courage, and the strength that comes from speaking truth.
This episode sheds light on: - The hidden struggles of male survivors
The importance of peer support and connection
Finding meaning after trauma
Healing through honesty, community, and compassion
Why one supportive person can transform a life
Reclaiming identity beyond diagnosis, past mistakes, or shame
If you or someone you know is walking through pain, this conversation offers hope, understanding, and the reminder that healing is possible—and you don’t have to do it alone.
Tautoko Tane: Male Survivors Aotearoa https://tautokotane.nz/ Tautoko Tane: Male Support Services Waikato https://waikatosurvivors.org.nz/
Hoake Tātou – Walk With Me Called Hoake Tātou | Walk With Me, the presentations start in Southland in mid-September and finish in Whangarei in March 2026. In total, 26 events will be held in 17 towns and cities, featuring a panel of presenters at each, including male survivors of sexual abuse. Visit https://tautokotane.nz/hoake-tatou-wa...
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00:00 — Introduction & First Connection
01:00 — The Power of Authentic Storytelling
03:00 — Childhood Abuse & Carrying the Pain
06:30 — Trauma, Drinking Young & Survival Mode
09:00 — AA, Recovery & Peer Support Wisdom
12:00 — Near-Death Illness & Life Turning Points
14:30 — Finding the Right Support Networks
17:30 — Male Sexual Abuse: Breaking the Silence
20:30 — Shame, Guilt & Delayed Disclosure
23:30 — Healing Toxic Patterns & Choosing Goodness
26:30 — Why Men Struggle to Seek Help
30:00 — Peer Support Groups & Authentic Communication
33:00 — Anger, Anxiety & Dissociation Explained
37:00 — Living in the Present & Rebuilding Life
40:30 — Practical Tools for Daily Wellbeing
44:00 — Art, Creativity & Healthy Coping
48:00 — National Seminars & Spreading Hope
51:00 — Advice to His Younger Self
52:40 — Final Reflections & Closing Gratitude
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