「我曾認為嚴格是有效的，直到孩子改變我」【

掙雄和鳳紅夫妻有兩個兒子，個性南轅北轍。老大允中住家裡，上班薪水全交給爸媽，從出生到現在都由媽媽幫自己理髮，興趣是外拍。而老二松廷獨自在台北生活，從高中開始做街頭塗鴉。以前噴漆還讓家裡收過法院提告，操心的媽媽，曾天天為兒子念經迴向。

　►殺死恐龍的爸爸
爸爸掙雄曾經相信，嚴格管教很有用。
初為人父，他對老大允中期望很高，管教嚴厲。允中小學一年級時，帶著十塊錢要去學校買作業本，結果卻買了當時正夯的玩具恐龍回家。爸爸在孩子面前，拿刀子將恐龍支解，為了教育他，不該「挪用公款」。
媽媽深信，「殺死恐龍」對允中幼小的心靈，造成不小的傷害。

一場「賞識」演講，讓爸爸掙雄決定收起棍子，改變教養方式 。對個性衝動、凡事好奇的老二，採用引導的方式溝通...


　► 性格截然不同的兩兄弟，又是怎麼看待爸媽呢？
　► 適婚年齡的允中說自己不想結婚，理由是「會被管東管西」，這是否受到家庭影響？
►先看本集概述：https://shows.pts.org.tw/lifestyle/di...


📍 殺死恐龍後，我們一家人的改變｜12/15 週五晚上9點 首播
📍 Slaying a Dinosaur Changed Our Family Forever

If your child's behavior didn't meet your expectations, would you correct them or try to appreciate their qualities? Tsai Cheng-hsiung once ruled the roost with an iron-fisted approach to parenting; however, a fateful incident with a toy dinosaur and a serendipitous introduction to "appreciation parenting" changed him and his family forever, leading to contrasting paths for his sons, Sung-ting and Yun-chung; one a bold-as-brass graffiti artist who is financially independent, the other a reserved factory worker who gives his salary to his mom and takes a monthly allowance. In this episode, we meet Cheng-hsiung, his wife Feng-hung, and the brothers as they strive for family harmony by embracing differences. What tests has Cheng-hsiung faced on his journey of hands-off-style appreciation parenting? Why does the family find unity in the culinary realm? What role has faith played in the family’s trajectory? Let’s find out!



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