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It is a profoundly isolating experience to be sat across from someone who loves you, to intellectually know you are safe, yet feel completely unreachable behind an invisible pane of glass. This disconnect isn't ingratitude, and it isn’t a defect in your personality. It is a biological blockade.
When your nervous system has learned through past experience that closeness equals danger, it doesn't matter what your conscious mind wants. Your subcortical brain—operating on nanosecond-fast neuroception—will intercept signals of affection and re-categorize them as threats. This video dives deep into the neurobiology of why you might be actively (though unconsciously) repelling the love you crave as a highly sophisticated survival protocol.
In this video, we explore:
• The "Glass Wall" mechanism: Why love hits your system and slides right off.
• Why intimacy feels like an exhausting high-performance task rather than rest.
• How hyper-independence, rejecting help, and deflecting praise are actually trauma responses.
• The biological cost of maintaining a "wartime" nervous system in peacetime.
• Moving from the safety of isolation toward the terrifying agency of connection.
This is for the person who has always been called "stoic," "independent," or "hard to read." It is for the friend who shows up for everyone else but feels invisible themselves. If you are tired of performing "okay-ness" while feeling a hollow echo behind your ribs, this analysis is specifically for you.
You are not broken or incapable of love. You are simply a wartime vessel operating in peacetime waters, protected by armor you no longer need.
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