One of the hardest things for women to overcome is the desire to fix a man. There are so many of us out here dating for potential and putting on the "Captain Save-A-Man" cape. Enough is enough ladies! Watch with me as we explore actual dates between two people on Love is Blind and how her "I Can Fix Him Syndrome" lead to one of the worst matches in Love Is Blind History!
While I understand the desire to date a man/woman with potential, it is also important to date someone who is not a project or doesn't need "fixing" either. One of the biggest dilemmas I think women face is that is hard for us to let go of the rescuer complex. It is not your responsibility as a woman to change a man nor is it your responsibility to rescue him. It is solely his responsibility to change for the better. Trying to do so leads to codependency, unhealthy relationship dynamics, and an inability to spot red flags. It leads to unbalanced relationship dynamics and toxic relationships. We need to stop trying to fix men and start holding them accountable for fixing themselves. Stop settling ladies!
The opposite can also be said as well. We see all of the time where the woman is the one who needs saving and fixing. Regardless of who it is, the message still stands. It is time for us to start pouring into people who uplift us, love us, respect us, cherish and value us and people who make life fun, enjoyable, interesting and exciting. We need to stop dating emotional vampires and soul suckers. People who drain us emotionally, mentally and physically.
Video Breakdown
0:00- 3:01 - What Went Wrong
3:02- 8:00 - Confusing views on marriage
8:01- 10:19 - Making premature assumptions about someone
10:20- 13:10 - Hyper-Independency Issues & Dating
13:11- 22:24 - Trauma bonding & Savior Complex
22:25- 24:37 - Not being intentional about what you want
24:38- 26:30 - More trauma bonding
26:31- 32:55 - Dating for peace
32:56- 44:10 - Questions KB should've asked
44:11- 47:44 - Differences in maturity with your partner
47:45- 50:59 - The future
Themes Discussed
Why we shouldn't depend on trauma bonding to feel connection
What Is Hyper-Independency and How Does It Show Up When Dating
The importance of living an intentional life, especially when dating
What does it look like to live and date for peace, joy and happiness instead of struggle love
How to tell if someone has high emotional intelligence (EQ)
The importance of not making assumptions and creating a fairy tale when looking for your "prince charming"
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