7 Types Of People You Need Strong Boundaries With

What are boundaries? Boundaries can be words of warning, not giving someone your time, or your attention, influencing your emotions or giving people material goods or money. Boundaries can be set with everyone and anyone. In this video, we will be addressing a few common types of people you need to set strong boundaries with.

We also made a video on the things you should say NO to:    • 11 Things You Should Say "NO" To  

If you're wondering about how to set boundaries, we have a video on that as well:    • How To Set Healthy Boundaries  


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1). Gossipers 0:32
2). Attention seekers 1:48
3). Victim mentality 3:18
4). Compulsive liars 4:38
5). Enablers 5:31
6). People who constantly belittle you 6:25
7). People who make you uncomfortable 7:29

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