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Most relationships don’t fail because love disappears.
They fail because couples follow advice that kills attraction.

In this video, I explain The Law of Thirds—a science-backed framework that shows why:
Too much closeness kills desire
Too much excitement creates chaos
Too much caretaking leads to a sexless relationship


Your brain runs two competing systems:
Attachment (safety, oxytocin)
Attraction (novelty, dopamine)


You can’t max out both at the same time—and most couples accidentally destroy desire by overfeeding comfort.

You’ll learn:
Why doing everything together creates boredom
The three relationship types that signal imbalance
How space, excitement, and caretaking actually sustain attraction
Why passion doesn’t die—it goes dormant
How to fix boredom without creating instability


If your relationship feels safe but empty… passionate but toxic… or polite but cold—this explains exactly why.
This isn't my opinion.

It’s biology.
📌 Watch until the end to identify which system you’re over-investing in—and how to rebalance it before attraction fades completely.

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