Self-Empathy – the new Oracle of Delphi
Empathy is the future of humanity if humanity and life on this planet are to have a future at all
There are different kinds of empathy. There is empathy used by the advertising industry, by politicians – by anyone who has an ulterior motive in understanding people from the inside out. In Psychophonetics terms we refer to these as delusional types of empathy: Projective, Intellectual and Manipulative Empathy.
Then there is empathy which sees, understands and experiences with another for the sake of being with, being a friend. This kind of empathy – in Psychophonetics we have named Real Empathy: Perceptive, Transformative and Facilitative Empathy. In Psychophonetics we refer to the counsellor as a skilled friend on the threshold – someone who is able to stand with you as you face your challenges, with presence and trust in your ability to own your next growth step.
Between delusional empathy and real empathy there is a potential crucial turning point: Self Empathy.
Have you noticed that if you can’t bare to listen to people whining that you have no patience with the ‘weaker” aspects of yourself?
Have you noticed that when you manage to accept a part of yourself you have been struggling with for years then it is so much easier to accept this same aspect in another? Any growth step we are able to take in self empathy is a growth step we have to share with others. Any self judgment we manage to transform within is one less which will be projected outwards onto other people.
What does it take?
As long as our consciousness remains within the confines of intellectual-reflective-analytical- word based consciousness – we will only perceive the surface of things and the surface of people. No one feels understood on this level alone. Empathy requires going deeper, understanding ourselves and others more fully.
The Oracle of Delphi, on the slopes of Mt Parnassus, about 160 KM northwest of Athens in Greece, are the remains of the most central spiritual centre of ancient Hellas. For thousands of years, to the ‘Naval of the World’ in the Oracle of Delphi people would travel from long distances to place destiny questions in front of the Gods seeking divine guidance for their lives, both personally and nationally. The naval of the World is hidden today in the depth of the individual human soul. There it is to be searched for consciously. Psychophonetics enables that search into the individual living spirit in the depth of the soul. There, through ‘Self-Empathy’ the key for empathy with everyone else is hidden.
Yehuda Tagar – an Australian, South African, British and Central European psychotherapist, consultant and trainer, founder of Psychophonetics and Methodical Empathy, director of Psychophonetics Institute International, Psychosophy Academy of Central Europe and co-director of Skola Empatie, Slovakia.
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Existuje empatia, ktorú používa reklamný priemysel, politici – každý, kto má postranný úmysel pochopiť ľudí zvnútra. V termínoch psychofonetiky ich označujeme ako bludné typy empatie: projektívna, intelektuálna a manipulatívna empatia.
Potom je tu empatia, ktorá vidí, chápe a prežíva s druhým kvôli tomu, aby bol s ním, bol priateľom. Tento druh empatie – v psychofonetike sme nazvali Skutočnú empatiu: vnímavú, transformatívnu a facilitatívnu empatiu. V psychofonetike označujeme poradcu ako skúseného priateľa na prahu – niekoho, kto je schopný stáť pri vás, keď čelíte vašim výzvam, s prítomnosťou a dôverou vo vašu schopnosť vlastniť svoj ďalší rastový krok.
Medzi klamnou empatiou a skutočnou empatiou existuje potenciálny rozhodujúci bod obratu: Seba-empatia.
Všimli ste si, že ak nedokážete počúvať ľudí, ktorí kňučia, že nemáte trpezlivosť so svojimi „slabšími“ stránkami?
Všimli ste si, že keď sa vám podarí prijať časť seba, s ktorou ste roky zápasili, je oveľa jednoduchšie prijať rovnaký aspekt v inom? Každý krok rastu, ktorý sme schopní urobiť v sebaempatii, je krokom rastu, o ktorý sa musíme podeliť s ostatnými. Akýkoľvek sebaúsudok, ktorý sa nám podarí premeniť vo vnútri, je o jeden menej, ktorý sa premietne smerom von na iných ľudí.
Čo k tomu treba?
Pokiaľ naše vedomie zostane v medziach vedomia založeného na intelektuálno-reflexívno-analytických slovách - budeme vnímať len povrch vecí a povrch ľudí. Nikto sa necíti pochopený iba na tejto úrovni. Empatia si vyžaduje hlbšie porozumenie sebe a iným.
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Yehuda Tagar (EN):
Website: https://www.yehudatagar.com/
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The School of Empathy (EN):
Website: https://psychophonetics.com/events/
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Škola Empatie (SK):
Webstránka: https://skolaempatie.sk/
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Instagram: / skolaempatieslovakia
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