(EN-SUB)Loneliness and Pain인간관계 시리즈2 외로움과 상처

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저의 고민은 외로움인데요 특히 술 먹으면 조금 더 많이 외로워요. 멋진 사람을 만나고 싶은데 막상 다가오니까 못 다가가겠더라고요. 상대방이 생각하는 그런 멋진 사람이 아닌 걸 들키는 게 되게 두려워요. 그래서 실망해서 상처 받을까봐 겁납니다.

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Loneliness and Pain
#loneliness #confidence #superiority #inferiority #comparison

Question: My question is about loneliness, which gets worse after drinking alcohol. I would like to meet someone nice but I get scared if they will find out that I am not as good as they are and I'd get hurt.

Answer: There is no such thing as good or bad, superior or inferior, old or new. It is just what it is. Stop comparing yourself with others. You feel lonely because you keep your mind closed. You should be happy when with someone or when alone.