Скачать или смотреть My Girlfriend Constantly Compares Me to Her Exes and I Hate My Body

This is a deeply personal story about body image, insecurity, and a toxic relationship that's causing serious emotional harm.

A man opens up about his intense insecurity regarding his body, specifically his penis size. As a big Black man, he feels the weight of stereotypes and expectations, which has been reinforced through years of negative experiences with partners who have shamed him.

His current girlfriend, despite claiming to love him, has spent hours on the phone comparing him unfavorably to her previous partners - both in size and sexual attraction. She's told him he's the smallest Black man she's ever seen, that seeing him sometimes turns her off, and that a previous partner could do things he never could. She regularly jokes about cheating and makes him feel inadequate while simultaneously making sex the central focus of their relationship.

The poster suspects she's only interested in his future career prospects and doesn't truly respect him. He's started antidepressants and therapy but feels isolated and unsure where to turn with these feelings.

The community response is unanimous and direct: this relationship is toxic and emotionally abusive. The girlfriend's behavior - constant comparisons, "jokes" about cheating, deliberately triggering his deepest insecurity - are red flags of psychological abuse. Commenters urge him to leave immediately and recognize that her treatment of him is unacceptable regardless of any physical characteristics.

This video explores themes of body dysmorphia, toxic relationships, racial stereotypes, masculinity, emotional abuse, and the importance of self-respect in relationships.

If you're experiencing similar issues, please reach out to a mental health professional or trusted support system.