5 am video - People don’t want you to succeed

5 am video - People don’t want you to succeed

People don’t want you to succeed

You will soon come to realize this as you start to make changes and see progress.

There are basically 2 camps of these people

The Obvious ones are the “haters”

They don’t want you to succeed for various reasons

Jealousy is a big one

Intimidation – they feel like you’re becoming better than them

The biggest reason I find is that if they have to acknowledge your success and progress, they somehow have to face the fact that are failing themselves.

We expect that response (or at least we will become aware of it quickly) from that camp.

But it’s the other camp that throws us for a real loop.

That’s our friends and family, especially our family.

The people we hold most dear.

But they don’t want you to succeed for different reasons.

Initially they love the idea of you getting healthier and happier, why wouldn’t they, afterall they love you.

BUT…

You changing and evolving and bettering yourself interrupts the status quo.

You taking some time for yourself (as you very well should) takes away from them in some manner.

In the case of the wife – the primary caregiver, dad may have to make supper a couple times a week or put the kids to bed. If he hasn’t done this often, its gonna be weird.

It’s gonna be weird on the kids too, after all you’re the one who tucks them in and tells them a story.

In the case of the husband – you’re gone a couple more nights during the week. You’re less available to drive the kids to and from hockey.

Plus you already suck at pulling your weight around the house .

The boyfriend or girlfriend are used to you being there on the couch besides them or now you’re not drinking or eating the same foods as them.

It gets awkward.

None of this is meant to be sexist,

Don’t get caught up on whether your roles are “different” than these examples

The point is we all have established certain roles in our relationships.

When we change our behaviors it has a ripple effect that involves our inner circle.

They love you and want you to be better, they just don’t like the pesky inconvenience of change.

The Bottom Line

Brace yourself for resistance from both camps.

Focus on ‘Why” you are making these positive changes and be ready to ride the bumps and waves as you move forward.

It’s all worth it

You’re worth it!

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