102: The Blame Game | The Loving Truth Podcast with Sharon Pope

🎙️ In this episode of The Loving Truth, I dive deep into the dynamics of blame in relationships. I pose the question: why do we so readily reach for blame, and how does it impact our marriages? I explore the emotional drivers behind blame, the consequences of outsourcing our lives to others, and how to take back our power by taking responsibility for our own choices. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the blame game—whether it’s blaming your partner or being blamed—this episode offers insightful guidance to break free and create healthier dynamics. Understanding conflict resolution is crucial for those in an unhappy marriage, and I can provide couples the tools they need for healing and growth.

Join certified Master Life Coach Sharon Pope as she guides you through self development techniques for building stronger relationships. 💑

➡️ What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

00:00 - Intro
01:45 - The emotional reasons why blame feels easier than confronting guilt, shame, or despair.
03:10 - How blaming others can serve as a way to avoid taking responsibility for creating change in your own life.
04:15 - Why outsourcing your happiness or decisions to someone else is disempowering—and what to do instead.
08:46 - How to recognize when you’re in the blame game and shift to a mindset of curiosity and accountability.
10:20 - The difference between constructive feedback and blame—and how to discern if there’s a lesson for you.
11:30 - Why it’s impossible to make someone feel a certain way, and how this truth can liberate your relationships.

➡️ Mentioned On The Show:

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Sharon is a certified Master Life Coach and a seven-time International Best-Selling Author on love and relationships. She has been published dozens of times, including in the New York Times, has 300+ blog posts and 300+ YouTube videos.