Скачать или смотреть It’s Conversation! Think About “How You Address People” — Distance Is Decided by Pronouns

Want to become good at conversation?
Is it about being funny? Speaking fluently? Talking fast?
No.
Conversation starts with one thing: having people who want to talk to you again.
And distance decides that.
In Japanese, the way you address someone is not just a word. It carries distance, hierarchy, intimacy, aggression, even romance.
“Anata” “Kimi” “Omae” Name Title Or saying nothing at all.
Each choice changes the relationship.
Say “kimi” too early? You sound like a pickup artist. Use “anata”? It might sound cold. Say nothing? That can be the most advanced strategy.
Conversation is not just technique. It is relationship design.
But design requires knowledge.
Vocabulary. Grammar. Cultural awareness.
Studying at your desk is not separate from conversation. It builds your future relationships.
That is what it really means to become good at conversation.

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