Jehez ki Lanath || Sinf E Nazuk Ki Pehchaan | NASHEED || صنف نازک کی پہچاں

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Nasheed Name : JEHEZ KI LANATH
Lyrics : Hafiz Abdul Azeem Umari Madani
Vocalist : Abu Umar Abdul Azeez Umari ( student of Islamic University of Madinah KSA )
Editor : Abu Umar Abdul Azeez Umari

A Beautiful Islamic Nasheed on Today's Weddings and Jehez with ENGLISH SUBTITLES.
“JEHEZ ( DOWRY ) IS NOT A MERE EVIL. IT IS A MOTHER OF MANY EVILS”.

Jahez is culture of the subcontinent (not in Islam), given by the bride to the bridegroom. Dower (Islam) is to be given by the bridegroom to the bride, to meet the marriage and her other requirements of setting her house.
It is a marriage custom present in this day and age within a minority of the Muslim population, this is commonly practiced amongst people of the indo-pak region.
Parents of the girl spend a lot of money on the education of their daughters and, on top of it, the bridegroom demands Jahez. It is unfair, putting unnecessary burden on the parents of the bride. These days both girls and boys are in jobs. They should bear their marriage expenses.
Marriage should be a joining of the hearts, not a financial transaction. Whether the man is paying a "bride price", or the woman's family is paying a dowry to the man to take their daughter, it still amounts to buying and selling people - slavery - and needs to be stopped.

EFFECT ON THE PUBLIC OF THE DOWRY PROHIBITION INITIATIVE
1. The parents don't lay enough emphasis on educating their daughters, as they feel that husbands will support them latter.
2. The Poorer sections of society who send their daughters out to work and earn some money, to help them save up for her dowry.
3. The regular middle and upper class backgrounds do send their daughters to school, but don't emphasize career options.
4. The very wealthy parents who happily support their daughters until they get married and their ability to fork out a high dowry.

LYRICS :
صنفِ نازک کی پہچاں مٹا دی گئی
قدر وقیمت ہی اس کی گھنا دی گئی

جوڑے گھوڑے کی لعنت ستم ڈھا گئی
مائی حوا کی بیٹی جلا دی گئی

ڈھائے اتنے ستم اور ایسے ستم
ہر پرانی روایت مٹادی گئی

خاتمہ یوں ہوا کل کی بارات کا
قبر میں آج دلہن لِٹا دی گئی

بولی معصوم جاں ہوکے شکوہ کناں
ماں مجھے کس خطا کی سزا دی گئی

آہ نکلی جو تھی ماں کی ممتا کی تھی
گھر میں جس دم کہ بیٹی اٹھا دی گئی

لاش مظلوم تھی دوشِ احباب پر
چلتے چلتے ہی ہر دم دعا دی گئی

دیکھنے کو تماشاۓ اہلِ ستم
ہر دریچہ سے چلمن ہٹادی گئی

تھی جو نورِ نظر ماں کی لختِ جگر
خاکِ ارضِ وطن میں ملا دی گئی

داستانِ الم صرف اتنی نہیں
کہ اذیت تو اس سے سوا دی گئی

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باقی جو اور تھی گنگنا دی گئی

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