Feel Them Pulling Away? Here's Why! | Fearful Avoidant | No Contact |

I've heard this story countless times.

You start dating someone new, and it's amazing. You spend so much time together and they're putting in great effort to be with you.

Then suddenly, there's a shift in their behaviour and you notice it immediately. They're not texting you as much, they're not as excited when they interact with you, and they start saying things like "You deserve someone better", or "I need space because you ask for too much from me".

If this has ever happened to you then I understand how it can drive you to try harder to make them go back to being that same loving person they were in the beginning.

Although there's only so much you can do to motivate someone to choose you, understanding why they're pulling away is the most important to determine if you should keep trying.

In this video, I share why Fearful Avoidants come on very strong in the beginning, only to pull away after the relationship deepens, and how they can heal this behaviour to have healthier relationships moving forward.


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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:01 Why They Come On Strong In The Beginning
02:19 They Believe 'Love Is Earned'
04:39 Their Feelings vs. Their Fears
08:14 Flaw Finding Explained
10:53 Their Lacking Sense Of Self-Identity
11:38 When They Shift From Anxious To Avoidant
12:14 How Dismissive Avoidants and Fearful Avoidants Seek Space Differently
13:46 How They Can Start To Heal
17:19 Fearful Avoidant Attachment (In-depth Overview)