Скачать или смотреть Truth or Lie? Normal Couples Don't Have These Problems! | Growth Marriage

"We shouldn't be struggling with these problems!"

“He doesn’t make time for the family like he used to… and he doesn’t pursue me anymore. He’s gotten lazy.” she said.

“Well, she doesn’t appreciate all I do for the family! I work hard so we can live a comfortable lifestyle. I do my best, and it’s never enough.” he said.

“We shouldn’t be having these problems!” she said.

“Right, nobody else we know is struggling with anything like this. If this relationship was meant-to-be, wouldn’t things just work out?” he added.

Ever feel this way? Like if your relationship was meant-to-be, you shouldn’t be struggling like you are?

I know I’ve had those thoughts… they can be a scary thought to have!

I was recently reading the book Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch.

He’s an incredible therapist and writer, and he was talking to a couple just like this.

After listening to these two people argue, and nearly convince themselves that the other person didn’t care enough about the relationship he asked a series of questions that blew my mind.

What if your partner really does care? What if the frustration, passion and raw emotion they’re feeling right now is evidence that they care a lot?

Couples who don’t care are indifferent to each other. They check out. But the fact that you show so much emotion about this means you care… so…

(Here’s the part that blew my mind.)

What if you’re wrong, and the problems you’re having right now are
EXACTLY the problems you SHOULD be having?

 👫 Check out the Epic Wives Experiment Here: https://epicwivesexperiment.com

🎤 Subscribe to the podcast: http://bit.ly/2Tl0UKG

❤️ Follow me on the Facebooks: https://bit.ly/3c1S8Hw

❤️ Follow me on Instagram: https://bit.ly/39RdGFw

#MarriageAdvice #ConflictManagement #GrowthMarriage