Скачать или смотреть I was a “good person” for 80 years… and it almost ruined my life

I’m 84 years old.

For most of my life, I was the “good one.”
The dependable one. The calm one. The one who never disappointed anyone.

And I didn’t realize until late that sometimes being “good” is just fear with good manners.

In this story, I share what people-pleasing really cost me—my peace, my presence, and pieces of my life I can’t get back… and the simple shift that finally set me free.

If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no…
If you’re exhausted from being the one who understands…
If your kindness is quietly turning into resentment…
this is for you.

— Thomas

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