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What lays behind the good intentions – Dr. Menis Yousry and Ştefan Mandachi

A therapeutical interview with surprising explanations on subjects such as:
• Narcissism and false altruism
• The reaction at criticism and the need for appreciation
• The ways we find distraction from the real pain inside us
• The way of healing by allowing yourself to be seen vulnerable and weak
• Anger management
• The needy behavior
• The impossibility to say NO

But these are only a part of them. The other ones are waiting for you to discover them step by step, watching the video.

And if you feel it will answer to some important questions, feel free to share it to someone you care about! It’s the best way to show your good intentions!


00:00 – 21:10 Altruism and narcissism
Here you have the opportunity to find out what lays behind our good intentions of helping, why do we need to be admired and appreciated, how does the narcissism manifest and how much altruism we have when doing good things. Everything has an explanation looking to our childhood and for everything there is a process and a solution. Including for narcissism.
Also, there are some opinions about criticism and how we can deal with the other’s opinion on us.

21:11- 45:41 The reasons besides actions
When it comes to express power and control, behind there is a process of finding a way to heal. Also, when we do something with passion and devotion. Making movies and wanting a big reward, for example.

A way of healing is letting yourself seen weak and vulnerable by someone that loves you.
Being truly vulnerable in a relationship is the real power and the real way we can heal a disconnection we’ve felt in our childhood with a parent (with the mother).

45:42 – 57:46 The fear of feeling the pain
Anger hides a trauma that needs to be healed. Also, the hyperactivity is a way of distracting from the pain we have inside. Everything we do is to avoid the pain and we constantly feel the fear of suffering.

57:47 – 1:10:20 Alone and lonely
What is the difference between being alone and lonely, why is sometimes hard to be alone, to say no, to be silently observed or to allow someone to stay near us, you will find out watching this part of the interview.

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