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You’re the only one who sacrifices in your relationship, and it’s left you feeling angry, resentful, overwhelmed and anxious. In this video I’ll explain what to do when you’re the only one who sacrifices in your relationship. The answer actually lies in developing a deeper understanding of why you are so determined to sacrifice, and why you believe your partner should do the same.

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DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

I used to be in your shoes. It drove me nuts! I’m the only one who sacrifices. I do all the work in my relationship. Heck, I do everything in my relationship! Why can’t my husband help out? Why can’t he love me back the same way? Isn’t compromise in relationships healthy?

Those were my thoughts for a LOOONG time. But then I learned the real reason for all those sacrifices. It was because I fully believed I could make my partner happy. And I also believed he could make ME happy. And that he was supposed to! The real reason you make so many sacrifices in your relationship is because you are believing a myth about what creates emotions.

Where do feelings come from? Most of us recognize that, to some extent, our thoughts drive our emotions. However, we act and talk like it’s totally in the hands of other people. “He hurt my feelings.” “She made me so angry.” “They made her cry.”

In fact, this belief, that other people are what creates emotions for us, is so deeply ingrained that it causes us to sacrifice the things we want for others, even when the effort is completely in vain!

If you’re the only one who sacrifices in your relationship, understanding why you sacrifice and what really creates emotions will save you. From exhaustion, from burnout and from deep resentment and anxiety that will destroy your relationships if left unchecked.

To your success!

Rachael Sloan