The TOP TEN New Dominant Mistakes in BDSM (and how to avoid them)

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Being a new Dominant can be rough. You may feel like you have to forge your own path and your only option is to learn from your own mistakes. But that isn't the only way. Let's discuss the top mistakes new Doms make and how YOU can avoid them.

00:00 - introduction
00:52 - kink bundle ad
01:52 - believing you need to know everything
04:57 - going the lone wolf TM route
06:22 - being domineering instead of Dominant
09:04 - believing they can't have safewords/limits/aftercare too
11:13 - neglecting soft skills
13:31 - using Dominance to veil insecurity
16:18 - forgetting to show your human side
19:30 - not investing in an aesthetic
22:00 - struggling with service
25:24 - trying too hard with (first) scenes
28:13 - final thoughts

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