Скачать или смотреть Which version of you is loved? (real self vs persona)

A question: Do the people who love you really love you? Or do they love the version of you that you show them? Think for a moment. How many people know the real you? Your real thoughts. Your real feelings. Your real fears. Your real weaknesses. How many people have seen you without a mask? Probably very few. Maybe none. Because we show different versions to different people.

In this video, I'm talking about why we create different versions and maybe a way to meet the real self.

Different Versions: Social Selves
Here's the truth: You don't have one "self." You have many "selves."

What you'll learn in this video:
• Creating different versions
• Why we show different selves
• Social vs real self (Goffman)
• Performance fatigue
• Does "real self" exist
• Existential loneliness
• Loved persona vs you
• Shallow relationships
• Fears of showing (4 fears)
• Show to some people
• Gradual opening (6 steps)
• Tiered intimacy
• Love test (3 tests)
• Selective authenticity

This video is for:
• Anyone showing different versions to different people
• Anyone experiencing performance fatigue
• Anyone feeling existential loneliness
• Anyone questioning "do they really love me"
• Anyone experiencing identity confusion
• Anyone unable to form deep connections
• Anyone wanting to meet real self

Related Concepts: Real self, persona, social self, Carl Jung, Erving Goffman, performance fatigue, existential loneliness, authenticity, Carl Rogers, vulnerability, identity confusion, tiered intimacy, selective authenticity

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