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Today's story is two years old. It was the month of Ramadan. I received a call in the afternoon. A young man named Noman was talking on the other end and he was crying. Noman said that he needed to see him in an emergency. I called him to Gulshan-e-Iqbal Park two hours later. The thirty-year-old young man came and told me his story. He was born in a house where his father used to disrespect his mother and kept her under strict restrictions. Whenever he wanted, his father would beat her up.

I grew up watching my parents quarrel, did my MA and started working in a good job. My parents got me married, but my wife did not serve my parents. Because of this, my mother beat her and my wife quarreled with me and left and I divorced her.

After some time, I was married to another girl. That girl also turned out to be like my first wife. She neither worked for my parents nor served my widowed sister and told everything to her mother on the phone. I was listening to the story calmly. Noman said that the peace of my house has been destroyed. Now you decide, sir. My wife's mother used to argue with us like a girl. I got angry and beat her and disrespected her so that my wife would get well. But it didn't matter. Her behavior remained the same as before. One day, my sister accidentally broke two plates from my wife's dinner set. My wife had an argument with my sister, so my mother beat them both. My wife called her mother and my father-in-law and the elder brother came to my house and I couldn't bear the rudeness of my mother. I also beat my father-in-law. My wife's father and brother took my wife away. Now, three months later, my wife has filed for divorce from me. Sir, I have three daughters. I am I can't live without my daughters, now tell me what should I do?
I suggested that you apologize to your mother-in-law and father-in-law, and by all means, please accept their apology.

At first, Noman kept arguing with me because he felt that apologizing would diminish his dignity, but then he was convinced by me, and he apologized to his mother-in-law and his wife, folding her hands, and told the judge that she did not want a divorce, but on the condition that she would live in a separate house. The two reconciled. After some time, Noman's parents persuaded Noman and his wife and took them to their house and promised that they would not exceed their authority in the future and would respect their daughter-in-law. Today, there is peace, happiness, and comfort in Noman's house. Everyone lives in peace. Friends, the purpose of telling the story was that if we all admit our mistakes and apologize for them and live with love, affection, and acceptance, there would be no quarrels or divorces. Parents who quarrel and beat their children not only become quarrelsome but also mentally retarded. Therefore, never Don't even discuss it so that we can give our country good children.