Breakups: Hoping ‘one day they’ll realize your worth?’

Are you waiting and hoping that one day your ex will realize your worth? Here’s why you’re stuck in a loop, obsessed and yearning for a ‘good review’ (to make them return):

Liz writes, “Hi Susan, was dumped a few months ago and after gaining perspective on the situation, I realize that she did not have empathy for me during our relationship and in general it was not a healthy relationship. A little voice kept telling me she wasn’t the one. Despite knowing this, I find myself getting caught in loops of hoping that one day she will realize what a catch I am and change. Advice?”

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