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Some people do not attack you head on.

They agree in the moment, then punish you later through delay, sarcasm, "accidental" forgetfulness, or silence.

The goal is not clarity.

The goal is to keep you guessing so you start managing their mood instead of living your life.

Watch the whole video because the power is in the pattern spotting.
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A short summary gives you the label, but the full video gives you the tells, the timing, and the exact responses that stop the game without turning you into a hard person.

Examples to look for.

1) A friend says they are happy for you, then "forgets" every milestone and changes the subject when others celebrate you.

2) A manager praises you in public, then privately withholds key information so you miss the mark and look careless.

3) A family member offers to help, then does it late and badly, and acts offended when you say it caused problems.

4) A co-parent agrees to a plan, then repeatedly doesn't turn up, making you look unreasonable for asking for consistency.

5) Someone keeps making "jokes" that always target the same insecurity, then calls you dramatic when you react.

Steps you can use today.

1) Name the pattern in one calm sentence, using actions not labels: "When you say yes and then do the opposite, it breaks trust."

2) Ask a two-option question and stop talking: "Is this a yes, or is this a no?"

3) Put the next agreement in writing, even if it's just a text recap: "To confirm, we agreed X by Friday."

4) Set a consequence you can actually enforce: "If it happens again, I will do it without you and keep it simple."

5) Reduce access if the pattern continues, because clarity is the minimum price of closeness.

Press the bell if you want these lessons to keep finding you.

I will teach you the steps and help you turn them into real change.

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