Скачать или смотреть Why the AVOIDANT Must Leave You First To Truly Love You | Megan Weks

In this powerful 25-minute masterclass, relationship coach and matchmaker Megan Weks unravels one of the most painful truths in attachment psychology: why a person with an avoidant attachment style often cannot access or express their deepest love for you until you are gone.

We explore the "presence paradox," where every attempt to build connection triggers their fear-based defenses, and how complete absence becomes the only space where their true feelings can surface without threat. This isn't about playing games; it's about understanding the psychological walls that make functional love impossible until loss forces a confrontation with truth.

If you've ever felt confused, hurt, or abandoned by a partner who seemed to love you but couldn't show up, this video provides the clarity and framework you need to heal, move forward, and understand what true, available love really looks like.

Megan Weks is a New York-based relationship coach and matchmaker specializing in relationship readiness and emotional intelligence. Her work integrates attachment theory and psychological insight to help individuals build sustainable, healthy partnerships.

⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 - The Heartbreaking Paradox
02:15 - Love Trapped Behind Walls of Fear
06:40 - The "Presence Paradox" That Prevents Connection
12:10 - Why Loss Forces the Truth to Surface
17:30 - The Love That Can Only Exist in Absence
21:50 - What This Means For Your Healing & Future
25:00 - Final Thoughts

Connect with Megan:

Website: For more resources and coaching: meganweks.com

Matchmaking: Learn about The Weks Selective, her curated service for lasting compatibility.

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This video is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The content describes common patterns in attachment theory but may not apply to every individual or relationship. Always seek the advice of your qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a personal situation.