The three beliefs you need to attract QUALITY friendships

Today, we’re going to talk about the three beliefs you need to attract quality friendships! I recently watched Danielle Jackson, who is an amazing friendship coach in her video (How to Make Friends in 2024) and it made me think about the beliefs that helped me attract quality friends time and time again. If you want to attract more amazing friendships in your life, this video is for you!

Here is Danielle's video!    • How to make friends in 2024 #shorts  

The three beliefs I carry with me in every situation are:

1. I’m looking forward to meeting new people
2. I’m excited to learn something new about this world
3. I’m going to get curious about the people here

These three beliefs have made it much easier and enjoyable to attract quality friendships because when you are intentional about seeking community, the folks who are also intentional will find you too!

I’ll be back next week with another video, so don’t forget to turn on notifications and subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Also, let me know in the comments below: what are some of the things you do or tell yourself to attract quality friendships in your life?


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