Zen Master Bon Haeng on The 'Mad Russian'

Russian man who helps people doesn't use hypnotism. Helps people who are obese, smokers, etc. Groups go in together to see him with a specific problem. He comes in to the group and gives an hour and a half monologue
Mad Russian said 'I'm going to give you all the secret of life, the secret of happiness, the secret to success.'
Do what you decide to do. Decide and do it. Over and over again. If you fail just get up and try again. Over time the pattern shifts by itself.
We all have a 'backseat driver,' that tells you you suck, says I hate you, says you screwed up again, says you'll never be any good at anything.
What gives backseat driver power is if you don't do what you decide to do.
So only do it, be decisive, and backseat driver gradually loses energy.
Stop investing in having another opinion checking, stop yourself, stop wavering.
.Kong ans come up addressing them in a natural clear way, shifts by itself.