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This is a throwback video from 2021 — one of the very first micro-lessons I ever taught inside Creative Flow School — and I’m bringing it back because it’s still relevant for anyone trying to learn how to collaborate, connect, and build real relationships in a digital world.

If you’re a young person (or young at heart) trying to figure out how to reach out, send the message, or shoot your shot with someone you admire… this is a great place to start.

Inside this short lesson, I walk through the foundations of building meaningful relationships online — the same practices that helped me build Creative Flow School, partner with incredible collaborators, and form long-term community connections.

⭐ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 — Why digital relationships matter
00:40 — Tip #1: Get back to your roots (integrity, reciprocity, open communication)
02:20 — How offline relationship skills transfer into online spaces
03:10 — The role of empathy in digital connection
03:40 — Tip #2: Get back to giving (know what you have to offer first)
04:30 — Why leading with value builds stronger collaborations
05:30 — Understanding shared values + the “Venn diagram” method
06:40 — Tip #3: Get clear on your ask (visioning + clarity before reaching out)
07:50 — The power of a 15-minute connection conversation
08:40 — Applying these lessons to creative and business collaborations
09:30 — Why alignment matters more than perfection in digital relationships
10:00 — Final thoughts on integrity, reciprocity, flow, and empathy

⭐ WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

✨ how to build relationships rooted in integrity and reciprocity
✨ how to communicate clearly and openly online
✨ how to identify your values before reaching out
✨ how to lead with what you bring to the table
✨ how to make an authentic ask (and why clarity matters)
✨ how to collaborate without overthinking it
✨ how to build meaningful digital community in any season of your life

Whether you’re reaching out for an opportunity, a conversation, a collaboration, or mentorship — these principles still hold up today.

My hope is that this finds the people who need it, when they need it.

If it helps you, drop a comment and let me know.
And if you want more support or guidance around building community, career, or creative confidence, you can always find me here:

IG: @rachelraicreative
LinkedIn: Rachel Rai Henry
CreativeFlowSchool.com

💚 #RootingForEveryFutureYou