Why Your Ex Gives Mixed Signals

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When you get mixed signals from your ex, you may initially wonder if they are doing this to toy with you, string you along, or just be cruel toward you in general.

I'm not saying that this is not possible. Indeed, there are definitely mean and cruel people in this world. But if that was the type of person your ex is, then you probably would have had an inkling of this during your time together (in which case, do you really want to get your ex back at all...?).

However, more common that your ex toying with you, your ex is simply just confused and trying to figure out exactly how they feel about you and how the two of you fit into each others lives.

Of course, you would probably love for them to make a decision right here and right now.

However, if your ex is confused, they are very unlikely to make any sort of decision that you would really be happy with in this state of mind.

So, what you want to do is to take the focus off of the commitment and off of the relationship. And instead, put the focus on the connection that the two of you share without worrying about where it's going to go or how it's going to work out.

After all, the commitment doesn't create the connection, but the connection creates the commitment.

And what you're probably looking for anyway is the emotional connection that you believe getting back together will bring to you.