Скачать или смотреть Here’s what you need to know about identity shifts within yourself.

There comes a point where the ‘you’ you've been performing exhausts you—and that’s exactly where the real work begins.

We take on many different identities throughout our lives.

This is completely normal.

The issue is that for much of our lives, most of these identities have been assigned to us—without our conscious awareness or consent.

It begins when we perceive that our original essence—who we naturally are—is not accepted by our caregivers or by society. So, we suppress that part of ourselves. It becomes our lost self.

We then replace that space with a false self—a version of us shaped to fit into our environment.

But over time, even that false self gets rejected—by our peers, partners, or friends. So we disown it too, and replace it with yet another version of a false self.

This cycle continues until we eventually reach a point of emotional exhaustion. We grow older and wiser, and we begin to sense there must be another way of being—but it still feels out of reach.

Why?
Because reclaiming those lost and disowned parts of ourselves is the key to restore our original essence. And from that place, we finally gain the power to choose the version of us who knows how to create the life we truly desire.

So when you think about the life you want—the one that feels beautiful and true—ask yourself:
Who would I need to be to have that life?
What am I wearing? How do I think? What practices keep me grounded?
What emotions feel most natural and authentic in that version of me?

Becoming that version requires building tolerance in your nervous system—to feel the full range of sensations, energy, and aliveness that come with living as your true self.

But if that identity is sitting on top of unintegrated, disowned parts of you, it creates a split in your psyche. That’s when things feel inauthentic. And others can sense it, too.

I know this road. And I deeply believe it doesn’t have to be hard to live a happy, abundant, pleasure-filled life. You just need the right roadmap—and an operating manual you can carry with you for the rest of your life.

We go deep into this in Pillar 2: Erotic Shadow Integration inside the Erotic Repatterning System.

I’m here to help you make it real.

With love,
Megan
Certified sex, relationship, and trauma expert