People Don't Respect You Because You Can't Say "NO" | A Guide to Setting Boundaries

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Girl, it's time you enter your selfish girl era; learn to say 'no' and genuinely prioritize yourself. You must serve yourself first to be able to serve others. Let 2024 be the year where you respect yourself and live true to yourself. In this video, I provide you with the steps you need to take to set and respect your boundaries. Learn why authenticity is magnetic and why saying 'NO' to what doesn't align with your values makes you unstoppable. I genuinely hope you enjoy this video and that it brings you benefits in every possible way! Much love to you all! ✨🧚🏽‍♂️
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♡ Contents Of Video ♡
00:00 - Intro
00:27 - Why Be Selfish?
04:47 - Shortform AD
06:07 - Defining “Selfish” & How to Balance It
10:01 - Lessons On Being Selfish (I learned the hard way)
10:05 - Lesson 1: Stop Lying To Yourself
11:48 - Lesson 2: Let Them Go! You Can’t Save Everyone
16:12 - Lesson 3: No One Cares About You…
17:16 - Lesson 4: Power of “NO”
19:53 - Ultimate Selfish Era Guide
20:11 - Have Clear Values
20:43 - Set Standards
22:53 - Set Boundaries
26:36 - Have a Vision
27:34 - Stop Taking Advice From Everyone
28:35 - Invest In Yourself
31:18 - Prepare for The Greatest Change
33:22 - Outro
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