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There’s been a lot of conversation lately about being gay, old, and alone.
Some men sound angry. Some sound at peace. But they’re all circling the same truth.

This isn’t a rant and it’s not a lecture.
I’m not talking at you, I’m talking to you.

We don’t feel old the way we thought we would.
But youth has always been currency, and eventually the invitations slow down.
What happens when our expectations don’t age with us?

This video is about dating, aging, options, delusion, honesty, and the quiet ways people end up lonely, sometimes by choice, sometimes by accident.

Let me know what you think.
Why do you think so many gay men end up old and alone?


00:00 – We Don’t Feel Old — Just Uninvited
01:12 – When Youth Stops Being Yours
03:15 – “I’ve Got Options”… Until You Don’t
05:29 – Dating the Version of Yourself That’s Gone
07:35 – When Feelings Come Too Late
09:49 – The Gap Between Wanting and Offering
11:15 – Alone Isn’t the Same as Lonely
13:56 – Let’s Be Honest About This