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If there’s something you want to do with your partner in bed, ask verbally in a respectful way, and be okay with a no if your partner isn’t comfortable. Don’t just push them into a position (unless they’ve explicitly already told you that that’s what they’d like you to do)

Oral sex can be a lot of fun, but only when it’s done willingly. So TALK ABOUT IT. And make your partner’s sense of safety and pleasure as much of a priority as your own.

Personally I think that if you’d like to receive oral, it’s usually a good idea to offer to give it first. But again, don’t assume, ASK. Ask your partner for their consent, even to give them oral. Ask if they’d be interested in giving you oral. And be respectful of their response even if it isn’t the response you are hoping for.

Even if l’m really enjoying making out with a guy, and would be open to oral together, if he suddenly does that bj head push thing it totally KILLS MY VIBE. I was talking to some of my friends about this the other day and they all resonated with how uncomfortable and annoying it feels when someone does that with zero prior communication. It becomes much harder to willingly give consent in such a situation because, in order to decline, the person being pushed not only has to say no, they have to literally resist your pressure. 

Seek each other’s consent, don’t just assume you already have it. Honor each other’s boundaries. Communication is KEY. ✨


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