Ep 9A: False Allegations of Domestic Violence - Overcoming the Silver Bullet in Family Court

Were you falsely accused of domestic violence in a custody battle? So was I - it's the Silver Bullet. Nobody tells you this: if you settle the criminal charge by pleading to a lesser crime or taking an anger management class, then in the custody case, the judge can hold that against you, and you risk losing primary or 50/50 custody of your child. So you have to fight to dismiss the charges. This is how I got my false criminal charges dismissed. Thanks to Johnny Depp for inspiring me to share my story.

I won primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should have had primary custody on Day 1, but instead it took over 3 years. We shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. Therefore, I will teach you the strategies I used to win custody. You need to understand the system and how to fight for custody as soon as you can. You can’t wait until the trial is over.

My channel: Father X: How Fathers Can Win Custody
   / @fatherx2022  

Subscribe to get updates as I post more tutorial videos. There’s a lot to cover to get you ready for court. Topics I cover for you:
Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court
Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders)
Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret added costs of family court
Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy
Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child
Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court…and the overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years
Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads
Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court
Episodes 9: False Allegations of DV
Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – this is achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence and gender bias of family court judges
Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy covering the Best Interests of The Child

Future Episodes:
Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads
Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations and things that can tank your custody case
Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling these other players in the family court arena
Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle
Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them
Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers

Fathers should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or going through a divorce. You may be seeking temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You may or may not want a divorce lawyer or family law attorney. And you may seek out resources from father’s rights advocates.

You need to learn how to win a custody battle as a dad, largely by focusing on the best interests of the child. You are getting a divorce from your ex, not your children. And if you have a Restraining Order or Order of Protection against you, it’s an uphill climb. The silver bullet in family court can be deadly. If restraining orders are based on false allegations, there are ways to turn that around to your advantage. I did. But you must be assertive. And you have to learn how to navigate the forensic evaluation, CPS/ACS children's services investigations, and family law.

I'm sorry you're in divorce/family court. But if you think it’s in the best interests of your child for you to have equal or primary custody, I'm laying out what I learned into this docuseries, to give you a fighting chance.
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Thanks to Johnny Depp for filing his defamation lawsuit against Amber Heard. Johnny helped inspire me to make this channel. I learned how Amber Heard made false allegations of domestic violence against Johnny Depp, many years prior. The world looked at Johnny Depp as if he were guilty…not knowing the truth.
When Johnny Depp sued Amber Heard, we learned Amber Heard made false allegations of domestic violence against Johnny Depp. Amber Heard was the actual perpetrator of domestic violence.
Johnny Depp created a public trial. Many of us saw Johnny Depp as the victim of domestic violence by Amber Heard. My son's mother was like Amber Heard…same behaviors and character traits. Johnny Depp's lawsuit against Amber Heard showed me that false allegations are an ongoing problem.
I made this channel to help dads falsely accused of domestic violence, who'll likely lose custody of their children, and be forced to be a weekend dad (or a dad with supervised visits).

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