IMPORTANT Things I Wish I Knew in My Early 20’s: Don’t Make the Same Mistakes I Did

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Age - 25
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Timestamps

0:00 - intro
00:36 - When you start to heal - the hard days will feel bad because you aren’t always in a state of disfunction
1:42 - Things don’t change unless you do
2:19 - The people you spend time with affect you more than you know
3:07 - You can recreate yourself as many times as you want
3:35 - Do things that speak to you and align with what you want to from life - always honor your journey
4:28 - We need Allah, Allah doest need us
5:01 - Learn about Islam and fall in love with it on your own
5:47 - Don’t do things because you are bored
6:32 - Learn how to be alone and bored - a lot of toxic situations happen because we don’t know how to do either
7:00 - Family is so important - make sure you treat your family as well as if not better than you treat other people in your life
7:37 - Don’t center your life around men
8:16 - Wear the hijab - it is hard but so many amazing things come from it
8:37 - Learn how to have heavy or uncomfortable conversations - don’t avoid conflict but always be respectful
9:06 - When you do things always make sure you have good intentions because the things we do for people expecting something back usually end up causing us pain
9:46 - Don’t expect to find yourself in other people - this will lead to disappointment
10:22 - Learn about yourself - you not only owe it to yourself but to the world to know yourself because if you don’t know who you are then you won’t be able to do the work you are put on this earth to do.
10:29 - Self care is so important - do little things for yourself whenever you get the chance
11:11 - Don’t make any decisions when you are desperate - grocery store when hungry analogy
11:46 - Friends are so important - they fill a part that family can’t fill
12:07 - Don’t get fixated so much on how you feel
13:05 - Be kind to people regardless of what they do because who you are shouldn’t be based on other people
13:38 - Don’t take anything personally - people are going through their own things, whatever someone did to you has nothing to do with you!
14:23 - Always do things with future you in mind