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Tips for the Recovering Pick Me

Thanks to the patriarchy, decentering men is seen as taboo. Learning how to decenter men also comes with decentering romantic relationships and learning how to stop seeking male validation. How do you do think when marriage and the importance of finding a husband is all you've been taught? What are practical ways that people can unlearn Pick Me behavior? Let's talk about it!

Also, HI! My name is Shayna Conde and I'm a childfree millennial who is also a world traveling journalist. I post new videos every day so don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE (and SuperThanks are always appreciated)!

0:00 - what's going on in my comments?
1:47 foster healthy relationships with women/femmes
3:31 learn to enjoy singleness
5:35 set standards (then raise them)
7:08 ask yourself why do you crave male validation
7:49 practice saying no!

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