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True intimacy is the one thing we spend our entire lives trying to avoid.

We think we want connection, but what we really want is the safety of a buffer.

In the film Her, there is a quiet moment where Theodore sits on a rooftop beside another person.

There is no performance and no fantasy.

This moment matters because of every mediated interaction that precedes it.

Theodore spent the entire story retreating into memories and digital connections because presence felt too risky.

Samantha offered him an intimacy without a body, but that only made the connection tolerable.

On the rooftop, that buffer is finally gone.

What remains is a shared stillness between two people who have stopped trying to manage the moment.

This isn't a scene about closure but about embodiment.

You experience this when you finally stop processing a connection and start inhabiting it.

It happens when you stop narrating your experience and let the sensation arrive.

In my book, Awaken Your Shadow, I explain this as intimacy grounded in presence instead of protection.

Feeling returns only when safety exists within the body.

Connection stops being something you analyze.

It becomes something you live.

Do you find it harder to sit in silence with another person than to have a deep conversation with them?

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