*Long Post***I've got to be transparent with my truth. Having it all together, or knowing what you want, and even being "pretty"/w a "nice body", doesn't mean sh$t to the "Wrong" man. #Facts
The wrong guy can NEVER appreciate when he has a "Good Woman". He's not even going to know how to treat her, even when she's telling him exactly what to do. All he knows how to do is, take her kindness for weak, plot, and take all the chances she gives him, as another opportunity to screw her over, all over again. In that case, you gotta know when to let go, before he brings you down. NEVER let a man make you hit "Rock Bottom". GET OUT, before the ship sinks. F$ck what the heart wants, you gotta use wisdom. #LetGo #MoveOn
Nevertheless,...
This voicemail right here is exactly why I’m so intentional about the type of man I choose. I always try to give men the benefit of the doubt, a fair chance to prove they’re not who the “naysayers” say they are, but I still have to be mindful of how long I tolerate the nonsense (If/When they bring it into my life)
Some men are triggers. They make it hard for a woman to stay in her soft girl era. And that’s why I curve certain ones quick, because I know myself. I can go from 0 to 100 real fast, and the version of me you see online ain’t the one you’ll meet in real life.
That’s exactly why I fight so hard to protect my peace and why I always say, I need a man who can keep me in my feminine energy. I don’t want, or need, a man who brings out the worst in me. Everybody has a breaking point, and the wrong person will push those buttons every single time.
I hate that I let my ex take me there, but I can admit he was my trigger. No matter how much I cared, I had to let him go. It hurt, but it was necessary, because deep down, he turned out to be one of my secret haters, someone quietly hoping I’d fail.
People can pretend all day, but not forever. Eventually, their true identity shows. Nothing is ever what it seems, and trust me, time always exposes the truth.
And for the record…
The issue was never financial. He carried his weight when it came to bills, that was never the problem. My issue was his lack of loyalty and his infidelity. I don’t care how much money you’re putting out; my spirit can’t rest if my discernment keeps warning me you’re up to no good.
You gotta go. Get from around me with all that, because I don’t cheat, and I’m loyal. So, I expect the same energy in return.
Besides that, if neither one of us is where we should be financially, then neither of us has room to be out here playing games. It’s time out for all that, especially if you’re in your 40s.
If you’re over 40 and still chasing women who make you feel like a man instead of changing who you are to be one, then I’m not the one for you. At our age, we already know what’s out there in them streets, TRASH. So if you like dumpster diving, you can go ahead and stay there.
Get your life together and stop playing. Y’all keep fumbling good women because you can’t stop giving in to your demons. And the sad part is, those same demons are out here whooping y’all asses and destroying the good life you could’ve had.
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