3 MINDSET pits that are probably keeping you STUCK | preparing for 2025

Today we speaking about 3 mindset pits that probably kept you back in 2024 and had you feeling stuck more often than not.

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I’m Kristan, I am 28 and a single mother I discovered the path of personal development and self-love while being in an on-and-off 8-year relationship, thinking that if I worked on myself the relationship would become better not knowing that as you work on yourself, things could end as well.

I’ve never looked back since then I’ve embraced learning, evolving and pivoting in life.

My 20’s Timeline:
• 20 -21: Graduate with a B.com Law degree and land a banking job straight out of university. 9 months later I leave because I hated being there not knowing that running away from something doesn’t make it better. After leaving I was at my lowest because I had no idea what to do with my life.

• 22-23: I find another job just before Covid as a Project Management Assistant and my personal development journey is accelerated as I read tons of books and realized, I want more of life than just working for someone. My cousin and I decided to start a Skincare business but never took it further because we wanted things to be ‘perfect’ before getting customers. I also got engaged and my parents get divorced.

• 23-24: I land another job as Office administrator and my mind is blown that my CFO and CEO were 26 and earning crazy money and I decided that I was going to become a blogger (didn’t get far with that either). Things go sour at the job and I decide to leave 4 months later, again in a space where I feel so lost but took on a part time job. My 8-year relationship ends officially.

• 25-26: 4 months later I get into a relationship with the father of my child not although I knew I needed to focus on myself and dealing with my previous relationship I chose not to. I get a new more stable job and My child’s father moves in with me and 8 months after being together I fall pregnant. My life took a 360 and I needed to evaluate for real this time. I decided to study to become life coach and completed that.

• 27-28: I had my child and throughout being a new mom, I really took a look at my life and decided that if I don’t create the life that I want for myself now I never will. My child’s father and I broke up and I left my job in Aug ’24 to pursue a more fulfilled life one that I can say is mine and not curated by what others think I should be, do or have.
So here I am.

I’ve learnt so much through these past years but one thing that really always comes up for me is if I had discipline where would I be? If I had a good sense of self-worth, where would I be? If.. where would I be?

I don’t know.

So, I am here to share all that I do know so far in relation to my life and all that I have learnt through books, course and my LIFE so far.

One thing I can say is I am committed to becoming a woman and having a life that I feel is worthwhile

Worth the time, money and effort in creating a life the fulfils her.

That’s why I started the Worthwhile Woman Club for woman who want learn how to embrace the same.