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In this powerful 12 minute and 47 second motivational speech, Dr. Gabor Maté explores the hidden trauma behind people-pleasing, over-giving, and emotional self-abandonment. Why do empaths feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions? Why does choosing peace feel like guilt? And what happens when an empath finally stops saving everyone — and starts saving themselves?
This deeply transformative talk reveals how childhood conditioning shapes the empath’s identity, why self-sacrifice feels like love, and how healing begins the moment you stop abandoning yourself for acceptance. If you constantly absorb other people’s pain, feel emotionally exhausted, or struggle to set boundaries, this message will shift your entire perspective.
This is not about becoming selfish. It’s about understanding that chronic self-sacrifice is often a trauma response — and that true compassion includes yourself.
⏳ Timestamps
00:00 🧠 Why Empaths Feel Responsible for Everyone
01:42 💔 The Childhood Root of People-Pleasing
03:18 🔍 Trauma Disguised as Compassion
05:06 ⚖️ The Cost of Constant Self-Abandonment
06:50 😞 Hidden Resentment & Emotional Exhaustion
08:15 🚪 The Fear of Choosing Yourself
09:40 🌿 What Real Healing Actually Looks Like
11:05 ✨ The Turning Point: Saving Yourself
12:20 🕊 Final Grounding Truth About Peace
WHY YOU SHOULD WATCH?
If you are the strong one, the helper, the emotional caretaker in every relationship — this video will speak directly to you. Watching this completely matters because the healing shift doesn’t happen at the surface level. It happens when you recognize that your need to save others may have started as a survival strategy. This speech grounds you in a powerful truth: your peace is not selfish. It is necessary. And the moment you stop rescuing everyone else is the moment you reclaim your own life.
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