Dating in Switzerland with Kelly Brändli from Sinaps

Many expats struggle with dating in Switzerland. In this episode, Kelly Brändli from Sinaps talks about Swiss dating etiquette, how expats can connect with locals, and how to build lasting romantic relationships in Switzerland.

Topics Covered
• Do Swiss people date expats?
• How to meet and approach people in Switzerland
• Passive, active and online dating
• Dating etiquette
• Kelly’s three-date rule and ‘The five plus two’
• Expat dating excuses and how to overcome them
• Dating with ADHD

Timestamps
00:00 Intro
00:34 About our guest
01:41 Coming to Switzerland
02:40 Learning to manage ADHD
03:53 Dating in Switzerland as an expat
05:35 Best dating tips for expats
07:06 Where to find people to date
09:14 Dealing with language barriers
10:09 Tips for using dating apps in Switzerland
13:17 The three-date rule
15:13 The five-plus-two dating blueprint
17:17 Expat-related excuses
19:43 Ideas for things to do on a date in Switzerland
21:54 Who can benefit from private dating coaching?
23:39 How does the coaching work?
26:05 How can listeners get in touch or find out more?

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Who We’re Talking To
Kelly Brändli is a dedicated dating and relationship coach, as well as an expert ADHD coach. With over a decade of experience, Kelly combines a unique personal journey with ADHD and professional training to help couples, families, and individuals navigate the complexities of neurodiverse relationships.
Drawing on her background as a dating and relationship coach, Kelly empowers clients to improve communication, manage conflicts, and build healthier relationships, especially when ADHD is in the mix.
Having worked with countless families, couples, and individuals, Kelly offers a compassionate and practical approach that has transformed the lives of many.
Outside of coaching, Kelly is the mother of two boys with ADHD and the partner of a late- diagnosed man. She is a passionate advocate for ADHD awareness and lives in the beautiful Zurich Oberland with her family and gorgeous ADHD support dog Ice.

About the Episode
Here are some of Kelly’s tips for expats living in Switzerland and looking to date:
1. Don’t get caught up in excuses: You might be hesitant to start dating because you think you’ll move away again soon. But many expats end up staying in Switzerland for longer than they initially intended. Also, Swiss residents are often open to moving somewhere else, so your new partner might move with you if you decide to leave Switzerland.
2. Try multiple strategies: Date passively, actively, and online. Passive dating is when you meet people while going about your day-to-day life, for example on the train or in your neighbourhood. Active dating is when you trade money or time for the chance to meet someone. Online dating happens on apps, and it can be a great tool to expand your dating pool.
3. Stick to the three-date rule: According to the three-date rule, you should meet someone at least three times before deciding whether you might be compatible. This gives you a chance of getting to know the whole person in several different settings.
4. Pay attention to the five plus two: Kelly recommends that you come up with five must-haves and two deal breakers. This helps you determine whether you’re compatible with someone more quickly.

Resources
The One Dating & Relationship Coaching - https://kellybrandli.com/
Sinaps - https://www.sinaps.ch/
The Path to Lasting Relationships: The 5+2 Dating Blueprint - https://kellybrandli.com/blog/the-pat...
10 Dating Tips for Expats - How to Find The One - https://kellybrandli.com/blog/10-dati...
Active and Passive Dating: Your Paths to Finding 'The One' This Summer - https://kellybrandli.com/blog/active-...
Swiss marriage statistics - https://www.bfs.admin.ch/bfs/en/home/...