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You meet someone new and within days you feel completely invested. You are already imagining a future with them. You are sharing things you normally keep private. Then they pull back and you feel devastated, confused about why you got so attached so quickly.

If you struggle with fast attachment, you are not needy or desperate. Your nervous system is searching for something it missed early on.

In this video we explore why you get attached too fast:

How anxious attachment creates hypervigilance around connection. Why loneliness makes you rush toward the first person who shows interest. How you mistake intensity for real intimacy. Why fast attachment is actually escapism from your own pain. How you overlook red flags when you are moving too fast. The belief that you are only worthy if you are useful. Why your body tries to secure connection before you have even known someone.

We also cover practical steps to slow down:

Build awareness of when you are moving too fast. Set boundaries for yourself about pace and progression. Slow down physical intimacy so you can actually know the person. Maintain your own life and friendships. Work with your loneliness instead of running from it. Grieve the fantasy instead of the real person. Seek support to understand your attachment patterns.

Real love develops slowly. Real intimacy is built on trust earned over time. When you learn to move slower, you build relationships that are actually worth the attachment.

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