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Conflict is unavoidable—but division doesn’t have to be. In this episode, Sammy hosts a table talk with Gabe Joseph and Sanaz on what healthy conflict resolution actually looks like in real life. They swap hilarious “after the sermon” moments, then get honest about times they handled tension the wrong way—like trying to speed-run unity, speaking truth with the wrong tone, or committing a spouse to plans without checking first (we’ve all been there).

From there, the conversation turns practical: how to recognize fight/flight/freeze/fawn responses, why it’s often more important to know someone’s trauma response than their love language, and how to approach conflict without assumptions so the other person doesn’t immediately go defensive. They also hit tools that actually work—Matthew 18, asking “What are you hearing me say?”, learning to listen without filling in gaps, and choosing reconciliation over being “right.”

The big takeaway: conflict can either create distance or strengthen trust—and the difference is humility, timing, and learning how this specific person receives correction and care.
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