Скачать или смотреть The Hidden Cost of Being a “Successful” Man (No One Warns You About This)

Most men are chasing success while quietly losing themselves.

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I sat down with Quentin Hafner, Scott Suffy, Jake Hamilton, and Scott Empringham to wrestle with what it actually means to win in 2026 without losing your faith, your marriage, or your integrity. This is not hype. It’s real talk about masculinity, suffering, leadership, identity, and the quiet disciplines that build a man from the inside out.

You’ll hear hard-earned lessons on why men feel lost, why culture keeps missing the mark, and why strength without depth eventually collapses. We unpack the tension between ambition and surrender, success and significance, discipline and grace. This episode speaks directly to high-performing, faith-driven men who are tired of pretending and ready to live aligned.

Key themes woven throughout this episode include:
Why most men don’t need more information, they need transformation
The danger of chasing image over identity
How suffering shapes strength when it’s handled God’s way
Why brotherhood and honest accountability change everything
What it actually looks like to lead your home, your work, and yourself with conviction

This episode reflects the heart of God-Aligned Purpose and the reality of closing the gap between who you are today and who God created you to be.

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This conversation was originally featured on the Quentin Hafner Podcast - https://quentinhafner.com/my-podcast-2.

Chapters
0:00 Winning in 2026 Without Losing Your Soul
5:05 Why Modern Men Feel Lost and Confused
12:57 Masculinity, Suffering, and Strength Reframed
19:44 Why Men Avoid the Hard Conversations at Home
26:25 Taking Responsibility Without Collapsing
32:27 Identity, Faith, and Carrying the Weight Well
38:41 Ambition, Insecurity, and the Inner Battle
42:45 Why Men Isolate Instead of Asking for Help
49:53 Brotherhood and Honest Accountability
56:15 Why Most Explosions Are Seen Too Late
1:00:41 The Lie of Arrival and False Success
1:05:13 Vulnerability, Marriage, and Leadership
1:11:55 Building Relational Capital at Home
1:16:27 Faith, Culture, and Speaking the Truth
1:21:12 Information vs Transformation in Men
1:25:20 What a 25-Year-Old Man Needs to Hear
1:35:06 Gratitude, Identity, and Finishing Strong

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